pgsql: Change more places to be less trusting ofRestrictInfo.is_pushed

Change more places to be less trusting of RestrictInfo.is_pushed_down.

On further reflection, commit e5d83995e didn't go far enough: pretty much
everywhere in the planner that examines a clause's is_pushed_down flag
ought to be changed to use the more complicated behavior where we also
check the clause's required_relids.  Otherwise we could make incorrect
decisions about whether, say, a clause is safe to use as a hash clause.

Some (many?) of these places are safe as-is, either because they are
never reached while considering a parameterized path, or because there
are additional checks that would reject a pushed-down clause anyway.
However, it seems smarter to just code them all the same way rather
than rely on easily-broken reasoning of that sort.

In support of that, invent a new macro RINFO_IS_PUSHED_DOWN that should
be used in place of direct tests on the is_pushed_down flag.

Like the previous patch, back-patch to all supported branches.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/f8128b11-c5bf-3539-48cd-234178b2314d@proxel.se

Branch
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master

Details
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https://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/c792c7db41466ff02107e3233ec9d92d8e3df866

Modified Files
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contrib/postgres_fdw/postgres_fdw.c       |  3 ++-
src/backend/optimizer/path/costsize.c     | 10 +++++++--
src/backend/optimizer/path/joinpath.c     |  4 ++--
src/backend/optimizer/path/joinrels.c     | 34 ++++++++++++++++++-------------
src/backend/optimizer/plan/analyzejoins.c | 10 ++++-----
src/backend/optimizer/plan/initsplan.c    |  5 +++++
src/backend/optimizer/util/relnode.c      |  3 ++-
src/backend/optimizer/util/restrictinfo.c | 12 ++---------
src/include/nodes/relation.h              | 17 +++++++++++++++-
src/include/optimizer/paths.h             |  3 ++-
10 files changed, 64 insertions(+), 37 deletions(-)